A guy I know asked a few people around Dublin (more precisely Milltown) about their opinions on gay marriage and gay rights in general. It’s worth watching I think
May 30th, 2012
So once the exams are over I have plans for a few text posts, at least one audio post and maybe a video post with the story of my first crush (I just need to think of something more important to add into it)
So what does everyone think of that? Yes or no?
May 28th, 2012
May 25th, 2012
I wonder if at the UK Nerdfighter gathering, the Cork (Ireland) gathering or the next Dublin NF gathering, will I start to talk about the importance of the community and the good and bad points of it. That’s what happened last time I went to one, and I’d say that it’s likely to happen again.
Not to say similar conversations don’t happen with certain people from the tumblr community, they do, but I often find that most of them don’t want to hear any of it
Do you really want to know?
Asketh - Anonymous
Yes I do really want to know
Thanks, Luke. I'll be going to Uni soon so I'm kinda hoping I'll find some people there that are more like me and that will actually want to be around me. And, yeah, I'm not the person that people don't like. Everyone likes me. They think of me as more than I am and think I'm this super talented person who has a lot going for her. But they have their cliques and I've never fit in and they all assume that I have a ton of friends because I have a "good personality". Yeah.
Asketh - Anonymous
Ah yeah..that’s a problem in itself. I totally understand what you mean by that. And yeah, I hope you find more people just like you in uni..you should anyway.
That’s the reason that I hate cliques, and always have. They just make people who really should never feel excluded feel that they’re on the edge looking in.
Who are you by the way? Or are you not going to tell me?
Well all my friendships end in chaos and my last two relationships have been hell. I know there are things that I'm good at but it's easy to forget about that stuff when you get so sick of being alone all of the time. Everyone around me has friends and has a boyfriend who will be good to them and I just exist. People like me, sure, but not enough to sit with me at lunch, or actually ask what's wrong when they see me in tears in the hallway. Everyone always just assumes I'm okay...
Asketh - Anonymous
Who are you by the way? Because from what I can see of you now you don’t seem like the type of person that people wouldn’t like.
But yes, sometimes things end badly. Sometimes people screw up, and sometimes people do things and then blame the results on the other party because they know that that person will accept it regardless. Having a lot of friends is over-rated, and to be honest I never really had good friends to sit with at lunch. Most of my friends were..friends..but also a kind of friend by necessity. School or college or whatever aren’t the place that you meet your closest friends, so don’t worry too much about being alone all the time. Just find those people who you can get along with :)
As for boyfriends, well…they don’t matter. Seriously, people today set too much store in who’s dating who, and to be honest it’s the most ridiculous thing. Just remind yourself of that. You don’t need a boyfriend, you’re you and eventually you’ll find someone who you won’t need..but you’ll want, and he’ll reciprocate.
Maybe everyone assumes you’re ok…or maybe they just don’t want to ask. They might think that it’s too personal, and so avoid asking. But if you ever want to let something that’s bothering you out then I’m always happy to let people vent it to me.If it helps you then I won’t complain..ever
Why do you want to know? I've just always been like this... Maybe it's because I'm so lonely a lot of the time and don't really have an quality friends. That and I'm just a pathetic excuse for a human. I'm so forgetful and always seem to come across as if the only person I care about is myself...
Asketh - Anonymous
I’m sure that’s not true, and can I ask you to stop being so hard of yourself. Think about what you’re good at. If you don’t have “quality” friends then maybe you just haven’t met the right people yet. That’s true for friends as well as further relationships.
Nobody is a pathetic excuse for anything, especially not you. And if the only person you care about is yourself..well you wouldn’t have taken the time to send me these messages
May 24th, 2012
Well who knows. It could mean lots of different things and lots of stuff could happen. Maybe she even feels the same way? There's always that. I'm just... pathetic, that's all. You don't wanna know.
Asketh - Anonymous
Yeah I guess…I doubt it though. We’re just friends. That’s all :)
And actually, I do want to know
You're far from pathetic! Me on the other hand... I'm not sure what to say. I get that feeling a lot. Especially lately. Maybe tell her about it?
Asketh - Anonymous
And if she just laughs, thinking that I’m joking. I suppose I shouldn’t complain too much actually. I mean it might happen, possibly will…so I won’t complain. It does seem strange though. Like what does it mean?
And what about you? :)
NO NOT PATHETIC BAD LUKE DON'T THINK LIKE THAT ENJOY THE HAPPY FUZZY FEELNGS
Asketh - Anonymous
It’s not exactly something that I can enjoy lol. Anyway, never going to happen is it…
Ok maybe not pathetic, but it sure sounds like it or seems like it to me.
